November 2010
22 posts
You know life may get in a few sucker punches but it’ll never knock you down if you don’t let it.
Real Talk #1 Stop worrying about the past. It is exactly that, the past. We do not live in the past. We live in the present, the here and now. Learn to enjoy the moment that you are living in right this instant. You can’t change what happened or what could have been. You can, however, change the future. If you cannot see that, then I am truly sorry for you will never be happy.
Real Talk #2 Life has many faces, some you can change and some you can’t. When you find one that doesn’t change, find another one to look at. It might just change your whole perspective on life.
Real Talk #3 Some people just want you around for the sole purpose of not wanting to be alone. This is wrong. You are just being used. People should want you around because they like you being there, not just because they are feeling lonely. The worst place you can find this is in a relationship, this is what causes devorces. Be warry of the lonely person, do not get attached and realize them for what they are.
Real Talk #4 Some people will push you away no matter what. Its not that they don’t like you or don’t want you around its just that they feel better alone. There is no chance to hurt you that way. Its easier for them that way. When you find someone like this, you can’t push them. That will only make them push back harder. All you can do is sit back and wait for them to trust you enough to come to you…
Real Talk #5 Being honest is always the hardest but its always the best in the long run…